What the Bible Says About Boasting (And How to Avoid It)

What Is Boasting?

Boasting is an expression of pride, often characterized by an exaggerated sense of self-sufficiency, achievements, or plans. At its core, boasting can be an attitude of arrogance—assuming control over life without acknowledging God’s sovereignty.

Psychologists suggest that people who frequently boast may actually be masking insecurity. Studies indicate that excessive self-promotion often backfires, making individuals appear less likable and even less competent (Psychology Today). Social media has further amplified this tendency, often leading to harmful social comparisons. Studies reveal that frequent bragging online can make others feel inadequate or even harm self-esteem (NV Roar).

James 4:13-17 warns against this mindset:

"Now listen, you who say, ‘Today or tomorrow we will go to this or that city, spend a year there, carry on business and make money.’ Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes. Instead, you ought to say, ‘If it is the Lord’s will, we will live and do this or that.’ As it is, you boast in your arrogant schemes. All such boasting is evil."

Boasting is dangerous because it subtly denies God's control over our lives. It fosters a false sense of security and self-reliance, leading us away from humility and dependence on God.

What Did Jesus Say About Boasting?

Jesus frequently addressed pride and boasting in His teachings, warning against self-righteousness and misplaced confidence. Here are three key lessons from His words:

1. The Pharisee and the Tax Collector (Luke 18:9-14)

Jesus tells the parable of two men praying:

• The Pharisee boasts about his righteousness, thanking God that he is not like other sinners.
• The tax collector, in contrast, humbly asks for God’s mercy.

"For all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted."(Luke 18:14)

Application: Modern boasting often appears in the way we present ourselves—whether in conversations, social media, or personal achievements. Jesus calls us to approach life with humility, recognizing that our righteousness comes from God, not ourselves.

2. The Parable of the Rich Fool (Luke 12:16-21)

A wealthy man boasts about his abundant harvest and plans to store his wealth, assuming he has years to enjoy it. But God says:

"You fool! This very night your life will be demanded from you. Then who will get what you have prepared for yourself?" (Luke 12:20)

Application: Many people boast in their financial success, careers, or material wealth without acknowledging that their lives are in God’s hands. Instead of pridefully storing up treasures on earth, we should be “rich toward God.”

3. Boasting in Righteousness (Matthew 6:1-4)

Jesus warns against practicing righteousness for public approval:

"Be careful not to practice your righteousness in front of others to be seen by them. If you do, you will have no reward from your Father in heaven." (Matthew 6:1)

Application: Good deeds should be done with pure motives, not for attention or validation. Jesus calls us to seek God’s approval rather than human recognition.

How to Overcome Boasting

Boasting is a deeply ingrained habit, but through biblical wisdom and practical steps, we can cultivate humility and dependence on God:

1. Acknowledge God’s Sovereignty – Regularly remind yourself that every blessing, skill, and opportunity comes from God (Deuteronomy 8:17-18).
2. Practice Gratitude – Instead of boasting about achievements, cultivate a habit of thanksgiving, recognizing God as the ultimate source of success.
3. Use “If the Lord Wills” in Your Plans – James 4:15 encourages us to say, “If it is the Lord’s will, we will live and do this or that.” This simple habit keeps us mindful of God’s control.
4. Examine Your Motives – Before sharing an accomplishment or plan, ask yourself: Am I seeking God’s glory or my own?
5. Serve Quietly – Follow Jesus’ teaching in Matthew 6:1-4 by doing good works in secret, seeking only God’s reward.

Final Reflection

Boasting isn’t just about words—it’s about the heart. As you go about your daily life, take time to evaluate your plans and achievements. Are they rooted in self-sufficiency, or are they surrendered to God? Offer your plans in prayer, saying, “If it is the Lord’s will, may this succeed.”

Let’s choose humility over pride, gratitude over boasting, and God’s will over self-reliance.